Take no for an answer
Nobody owes you a drink, their number, a private meeting or an explanation.
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Community rules
Iskra events are meant to be relaxed. Be kind, respect other people’s boundaries and let everyone enjoy the activity without pressure.
Nobody owes you a drink, their number, a private meeting or an explanation.
Everyone needs their own confirmed booking unless the event page says guests are welcome.
Do not sell, recruit or collect contacts at an Iskra event.
Check first before sharing someone’s photo, message, contact details or the private venue.
The rules
Boundaries, harassment and discrimination
If someone is not interested, stop. Do not pressure anyone to drink, share contact details, spend time alone, keep talking or accept physical contact. They do not owe you a reason.
Do not threaten, intimidate or target anyone. Hate speech, discriminatory comments, sexual remarks and unwanted messages are not allowed.
It’s fine if two people hit it off. It’s not fine to keep flirting after someone shows they’re not interested, send unwanted sexual messages or come mainly to look for dates.
Bookings, privacy, venue rules and alcohol
Do not pitch a business, recruit people, collect leads or add members to another group without their permission.
Ask before sharing someone’s photo, message, phone number or social profile. Never forward the private venue details.
Everyone needs their own confirmed booking unless the event page clearly says guests are allowed.
Arrive on time, respect the group size, cancel if you cannot come and follow reasonable directions from the host or venue.
Alcohol is never an excuse for behaviour that is unsafe, aggressive or disrespectful.
How to report a problem and what we may do
Use the confidential report form or contact the safety team. We limit access to the report and do not automatically send it to the host.
Someone from the Iskra Social team reviews each report. We may suspend or remove a member after a serious incident or repeated problems.
We review applications and keep events small, but we cannot promise how every person will behave. If anyone is in immediate danger in Poland, call 112.
You can contact us privately. Only the people handling the report can read it, and we do not automatically pass it to the host.